I wrote 12 steps to being a happier writer.
The Twelve Steps of Writers Anonymous
1. We admitted we were powerless over publishing.
2. Came to believe that a force greater than ourselves, the publishers, editors, agents and the reading public, held the power.
3. Made a decision to turn our will over to the joy of writing for writing in itself as a pure creative expression of our inner selves.
4. Made a determination to write fearlessly without the restraints of the inner critic.
5. Admitted to God, to ourselves and to another fellow writer that this business truly sucks some days.
6. Were entirely ready to allow ourselves the freedom of expressing ourselves through our writing, no matter how politically uncorrect or unmarketable the writing was.
7. Humbly acknowledged there will always be a writer better than us, more popular, with better sales, more contracts, some of whom have egos that suck up all the space until we’re left with a gasping black hole.
8. Made a list of all the egocentric writers and decided never to buy their books, except at a UBS. Continue to support other popular authors, read their books and learn from the wisdom of their experience.
9. Acknowledged there will always be writers worse than us as well, and all we can do is become the best writer we are meant to be instead of comparing ourselves to others.
10. Continued to balance our writing with our personal lives and to treat other writers with the same respect we ourselves desire.
11. Sought the advice of more experienced writers, writing manuals and workshops to improve our writing, but while acknowledging these methods may not work for us and that’s okay.
12. Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to practice these principles in all our writing.